Dilemma of my life is never ending,
Should I smile Or I should not.. I don't know,
Its like my destiny wants me to keep trying.
Trusting him was a biggest mistake of mine,
He broke my heart and I dropped myself in wine.
Roaming on road here and there..
Iam not finding him anywhere.
Now only memories live with me,
rest everything flying away like a bee.
Day and night Iam crying alot..
as you have broken our knot.
whether you wrong or I am, now it doesn't matter,
but there is only one thing that I want to utter..
"We met to get apart."
Friday, April 15, 2011
Saturday, November 6, 2010
IT’S NOT WHAT YOU KNOW- IT’S WHO YOU KNOW.
These days, Networking has become the necessity of life. To be successful in life, networking is very important. Networking is also the key to a good social life. No matter what you are; a student, an employee, a manager, owner of an organization or the higher authorities of a nation all need one thing and i.e. strong social networking.
Social networking is the social structure made up of individuals called as ‘nodes’ which are tied together by a one or more specific kind of interdependency, such as common interest, friendship, kinship, financial exchange, knowledge, prestige, etc.
To be stable in the market, in terms of career or establishment of business and for competing with others, for everything we all need a strong social networking.
In today’s era, it doesn’t matter ‘what you know’, the thing that matters here is ‘who you know’. The knowledge you are having is important but not that much, the thing that is really important here is the level of networking and sources you are having. The more contacts and recommendations you are having, the more successful you will be. These networking’s boost one’s career to the extreme.
In life, networks is our safety net- the people we contact for getting a job, or for getting a contract in our favour, for supporting a nation, by other nation, at the time of wars or other crises are invaluable.
In Business, networking is the vehicle to spread "word of mouth". Networking is the primary source of referrals. In the business world, referrals are warm leads, almost ready to buy, as opposed to what you can get from cold-calling or direct mail.
These days, a strong social networking is really needed as knowing the right person increases your chances of getting ahead. No doubt, that knowledge is necessary but it’s also true that a person with strong social networking succeeds more than the person who is having only knowledge. Competition is increasing day by day, and only knowledge or intelligence will not make you to survive in the market for a longer period, you need strong contacts and sources of referrals, people who can recommend you, to be in the market for a longer period.
As a car cannot run only with its engine, it requires wheels to move, similarly, people cannot move ahead only with their knowledge and intelligence, they need strong networking as their wheels to move ahead and to win the race of life.
Social networking is the social structure made up of individuals called as ‘nodes’ which are tied together by a one or more specific kind of interdependency, such as common interest, friendship, kinship, financial exchange, knowledge, prestige, etc.
To be stable in the market, in terms of career or establishment of business and for competing with others, for everything we all need a strong social networking.
In today’s era, it doesn’t matter ‘what you know’, the thing that matters here is ‘who you know’. The knowledge you are having is important but not that much, the thing that is really important here is the level of networking and sources you are having. The more contacts and recommendations you are having, the more successful you will be. These networking’s boost one’s career to the extreme.
In life, networks is our safety net- the people we contact for getting a job, or for getting a contract in our favour, for supporting a nation, by other nation, at the time of wars or other crises are invaluable.
In Business, networking is the vehicle to spread "word of mouth". Networking is the primary source of referrals. In the business world, referrals are warm leads, almost ready to buy, as opposed to what you can get from cold-calling or direct mail.
These days, a strong social networking is really needed as knowing the right person increases your chances of getting ahead. No doubt, that knowledge is necessary but it’s also true that a person with strong social networking succeeds more than the person who is having only knowledge. Competition is increasing day by day, and only knowledge or intelligence will not make you to survive in the market for a longer period, you need strong contacts and sources of referrals, people who can recommend you, to be in the market for a longer period.
As a car cannot run only with its engine, it requires wheels to move, similarly, people cannot move ahead only with their knowledge and intelligence, they need strong networking as their wheels to move ahead and to win the race of life.
IS NATION WITH ZERO CORRUPTION POSSIBLE??
Corruption lies everywhere in the world. Just the form and the degree vary. It relatively changes as the time progresses.
Corruption begins when desire overtakes deserving. It is always there from ancient times and will always be there at all places.
Corruption is the illegal use of authority, official power for private gain. It includes bribery, fraud, use of public resources, stealing of official and public resources, partiality/favouritism.
Most of the people are unaware of what effect their actions will have on others. They need money and power, as they think that money is everything.
Corruption is not confined to any particular section of the society, but it is presented in all the parts of the society. Not only rich people but poor people also involves in this type of activities, either willingly due to greed or due to so called compulsion.
Now the question arises here is that- “Is it possible to make a nation with zero corruption”??
Well, there are many answers for this question but the thing is- are we really implementing to those solutions which helps to eradicate corruption?? Answer would be probably no, because we all are corrupted. We have many anti- corruption bureaus, governments and private organizations, to remove corruption from the nation. But the thing is still the corruption rate in India is very high, the reason for this is just because the person involves in this kind of anti-corruption bureaus are themselves corrupted, Higher authorities of our nation are corrupted, every section of the society is corrupted, we all are corrupted.
Taking bribe is not only corruption but giving bribe and supporting corruption and corrupted people in any manner comes under corruption.
At the present condition, the nation with zero corruption is like a dream but it can be a reality if we think so, if we want so and if we work accordingly.
We can only eradicate corruption from our nation, by first making our self corruption free.
If you wish to make your nation corruption free then first implement it in yourself.
Because “if not you then who, if not now then when”, this is the time when you can take a pledge- ‘neither to take bribe, nor to give bribe’.
Gandhi ji once said, ‘be the change, you want to see in the world’, If you want to see your nation corruption free then first make yourself corruption free. Don’t support any means of corruption. Only then, this dream of today will be a reality of tomorrow.
Stop corruption... and save India!!!
Corruption begins when desire overtakes deserving. It is always there from ancient times and will always be there at all places.
Corruption is the illegal use of authority, official power for private gain. It includes bribery, fraud, use of public resources, stealing of official and public resources, partiality/favouritism.
Most of the people are unaware of what effect their actions will have on others. They need money and power, as they think that money is everything.
Corruption is not confined to any particular section of the society, but it is presented in all the parts of the society. Not only rich people but poor people also involves in this type of activities, either willingly due to greed or due to so called compulsion.
Now the question arises here is that- “Is it possible to make a nation with zero corruption”??
Well, there are many answers for this question but the thing is- are we really implementing to those solutions which helps to eradicate corruption?? Answer would be probably no, because we all are corrupted. We have many anti- corruption bureaus, governments and private organizations, to remove corruption from the nation. But the thing is still the corruption rate in India is very high, the reason for this is just because the person involves in this kind of anti-corruption bureaus are themselves corrupted, Higher authorities of our nation are corrupted, every section of the society is corrupted, we all are corrupted.
Taking bribe is not only corruption but giving bribe and supporting corruption and corrupted people in any manner comes under corruption.
At the present condition, the nation with zero corruption is like a dream but it can be a reality if we think so, if we want so and if we work accordingly.
We can only eradicate corruption from our nation, by first making our self corruption free.
If you wish to make your nation corruption free then first implement it in yourself.
Because “if not you then who, if not now then when”, this is the time when you can take a pledge- ‘neither to take bribe, nor to give bribe’.
Gandhi ji once said, ‘be the change, you want to see in the world’, If you want to see your nation corruption free then first make yourself corruption free. Don’t support any means of corruption. Only then, this dream of today will be a reality of tomorrow.
Stop corruption... and save India!!!
Monday, October 19, 2009
ETERNAL YOUTH
''Youth" is a period of age between childhood & adulthood described as the physical & psycological development from the onset of puberty to maturity & early childhood. Everybody has their own biological clock which is different from other species in the community, & this biological clock varies from species to species & is almost same for the members of the same community, & this biological clock determines the period of youth in all species..as some lives for 100 years & some for 10-15 years & some even lives for one day..so the period of youth, when they are called as young is completely dependent on their biological clock & is different in different group of living organisms.
Youth is neither childhood nor adulthood but it lies somewhere in between them. Youth generally shows the behaviour of a child as well as a mature adult, but this world demands for the qualities of youth that is ever lasting not a time of life but a mind set of an individual; that mindset which depends on the quality of life not the quantity of time spend. We all living here in this world for quantity not for quality.
We all wants to be young forever. For all of us age doesn't matter till our hearts feel young. Youth may be a period of age but to be young we dont have to be dependent on age limits, its our heart who feels and our mind who thinks & this makes a person young even at the age of 60 or 70 or even at the time of our last breath we can be young if we want & this ever-lasting period of youth is what we called as ''ETERNAL YOUTH'' .
We all , either humans or some other living creatures everybody wants to be young forever.
Specially, human beings, they want to be young forever. They want ever-lasting youth that will remain with them till their end. They want eternal youth, youth that comes not from physical appearance but from heart , mind & ofcourse from Soul.
Today, peoples are spending huge sum of money, their valuable earning's just to look young & beautiful. Many good brands are making their markets by selling their products saying it will make you young & beautiful, but the question is: are they really doing their job well ? Are they really doing what they committing & Is their any such products in real which are able to make you young ????
Well, personally i dont think so, because what makes you really young is not the chemicals & products but its your inner happiness of mind, heart & soul. Even the world demands for quality of youth not the time period when we live our life in between childhood & adulthood.
Even for older aged peoples youth is still their if they want to be young. The basic thing which makes you young is your attitude towards things like towards your life and also towards your way of handling things. We all have lots of problems in our life's and we all handle it in our own way of handling situations, some handle with positivity & some with negativity but those who handle life's hurdle's with positivity leads their life happily & this positivity & cheerfulness in their lives makes them young forever & that is what we call 'ETERNAL YOUTH''.
One day i met a man of age around 70-72, & seriouslly i was mesmerized by his way of thinking , i got amazed by his way of looking things, he was so calm even though he has nothing to loose. He had lost all his assets , his wife died , his son & their children left him alone but then also he is so cool, very positive towards life. Iam young and i spend my maximum time with young peoples but we never have those spirits of living live so cool within us. We live life without principles, without proper directions ,& when it comes to face any problem we think as if we got a big problem & curse our near & dear one's & even to GOD. But that old man, with lots of problem in life ,he is so cool and calm and still have positive attitude towards life he still have his full faith on God.
I think we should follow the same positivity in life at every situation ,either good or bad we should not loose our faith & try to be happy forever and also we should try to make others happy than only we can achieve real youth, for which the whole world is fighting with their own & this eternal youth will remain with you forever ,if once achieved.
So, always remeber this fact that youth is not a time of life; but its a state of mind;its not a matter of rosy cheeks , red lips , supple knees; its a matter of the will; quality of imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.
The way to be young is to keep your faith young. Keep your self-confidence young, keep your hope young.
Youth is, after all, just a moment, but it is the moment , the spark, that you always carry in your heart.
''YOUTH HAS NO AGE''...!!!!
Friday, October 16, 2009
LIFE'S BITTER REALITIES V/S YOUTH INNOCENCE
LIFE is full of excitement, enjoyment, THRILLS, mysteries, fun, & love.. ! Many times we face alot of hurdles in our way..but than also life gives its best to all..LIFE is full of colours. But we cant deny the fact & that fact is life's bitter realities..realities which is quiet bitter and is very hard to take in..specially to youngsters who are living the best age of there life's..full on energy in them, no worries, no fear, no tension in them , they only busy in enjoying lifes at its best
with little knowledge of lifes bitterness and hardnessss..youths are like dynamides..able to make a big explosion when needed bt there innocence towards lifes realities is really very sweet but it is difficult for them to face all this..as the time has been changed and it keeps on changing and In present, youths are expected to show there best among rest. They are overloaded by the expectations of the families..societies..and are lying down due to the heavy loads of competition..competition that is going between youths to prove themselves in every field of their life..starting from their peer groups, to the education level..which is the far most hardest , toughest, competition which is to be faced by youngsters at every age of their careers, to make a better future ,to get a name fame in society.
But this bitter reality of life is bitter to that extent that in this competitional stage ..youth has even forgotten about their own liveliness..their fun , enjoyment.. As this is the only age where youth can make there future as expected by them by their families, societies & even by the countries.
Today, youths are not only a particular age group of people but this youths are the building bolcks of one's nations..like in many multi-national companies, & in big firms the age groups of C.E.O's are also quiet very young, even if we take a look in our present ministry ..its full of young ministers..& not only this but also at the borders and at every field of life ..youths are showing their talent & capabilities.
WELL..its good that youngs are doing best in all fields of their lives and also proving there inner talent at very short age of their lives but it should be well taken care of this fact that..IN THE BATTLE OF LIFE ..they shouldn't forget the beauty and liveliness of lives ..& their innocence, in facing the lives bitter realitiesssss ..!!!!!!!!
with little knowledge of lifes bitterness and hardnessss..youths are like dynamides..able to make a big explosion when needed bt there innocence towards lifes realities is really very sweet but it is difficult for them to face all this..as the time has been changed and it keeps on changing and In present, youths are expected to show there best among rest. They are overloaded by the expectations of the families..societies..and are lying down due to the heavy loads of competition..competition that is going between youths to prove themselves in every field of their life..starting from their peer groups, to the education level..which is the far most hardest , toughest, competition which is to be faced by youngsters at every age of their careers, to make a better future ,to get a name fame in society.
But this bitter reality of life is bitter to that extent that in this competitional stage ..youth has even forgotten about their own liveliness..their fun , enjoyment.. As this is the only age where youth can make there future as expected by them by their families, societies & even by the countries.
Today, youths are not only a particular age group of people but this youths are the building bolcks of one's nations..like in many multi-national companies, & in big firms the age groups of C.E.O's are also quiet very young, even if we take a look in our present ministry ..its full of young ministers..& not only this but also at the borders and at every field of life ..youths are showing their talent & capabilities.
WELL..its good that youngs are doing best in all fields of their lives and also proving there inner talent at very short age of their lives but it should be well taken care of this fact that..IN THE BATTLE OF LIFE ..they shouldn't forget the beauty and liveliness of lives ..& their innocence, in facing the lives bitter realitiesssss ..!!!!!!!!
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